- They are so much more convenient than cars in Kathmandu
- Road rules don’t really apply
- My hair flows nicely in the wind
- I can see the city better
- My balance is improving
Reasons a Motorbike is Bad News
- Accidents in motorbikes are worse than cars
- Riding a motorbike in the rain is not fun. Ditto for mud roads.
- I still haven’t figured out how to gracefully sit on the bike (and am reminded of this daily)
- Bugs in your mouth = not delicious
I’ve been here a week now, and have experienced a range of emotions in regards to this city and its people. Every day is a different challenge, although I find myself liking it more and more. I am content here, at least for the time being at least. It’s so fascinating to me that this life is not chaos to the rest of the city’s residents – just me.
The ECCA staff is really nice and has gone out of their way to take me to different ECCA projects across the Kathmandu Valley. They’ve also been great at answering my random questions. Here’s some of what I’m learning so far:
- Arranged marriages, though long a tradition in Nepal, are no longer status quo. Some youth now date and choose their own marriage partner, while others ask their family to choose then take time to get to know the person before the marriage. Several of the guys I work with have girlfriends, so it’s definitely different these days. People date and go out in groups, though its still largely a family-oriented place.
- Though many women work in Kathmandu, men still own the stores and make the rules. There are a few women working at ECCA - most are men in between 25 and 40. ECCA relies a lot on volunteers, most of who are college age students. I am treated 100% as an equal here. I am trying hard to learn Nepali so I can keep up with everyone’s jokes.
- Anyone who can afford to do so purchases big jugs of clean water from stores to use for cooking and drinking. I’ve not had any problems with the water thus far, because I can purchase a jug for my house for 50 Rupees (less than $1), and ECCA and quality restaurants use this kind of water as well. Water shortages are a problem across Nepal, and the quality of water remains poor even in the wealthiest areas.
- The majority of the upper class in Kathmandu (the caste system is still strong though not widely acknowledged) are part of the Newari ethnic group, so most people in Kathmandu speak both Nepali and Newari. Most children learn English in the schools as well.
On Tuesday, I traveled outside the Kathmandu Valley to a small town called Macheagaun, where we introduced ECCA’s sanitation and water program in a secondary school. I quickly fell in love with the mountains and small towns. Nepal really is a beautiful country. It’s very green here, with rolling hills and mountains, and temples everywhere.
Those of you who have asked for my address: funny story, actually. I live in a part of Kathmandu called Anamnagar, which translates to “place without a name.” Seriously. So anyway, I don’t actually have an address. If you’re interested in mailing me, let me know and I’ll give you my work address. I live right by a huge government compound, which is surprisingly safe. I am very happy to be living away from the tourist areas – this is the “real” Kathmandu here.
As requested, here are some photos that I’ve taken so far. Photos with people in them are infinitely more interesting, but I still get kind of freaked out about that. Give me another few days and I’m sure it will be fine. I’m clearly not in these photos, but I’ll remedy that soon enough.
Speaking about ECCA projects and proper sanitation and water practices in a secondary school in Mancheagaun.